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Tuesday, 10 November 2009

  • sudden impulses

    Last week, I received a sudden message from a beautiful and sexy female friend.  "I am getting married" she said. and I was in awe..

    As I recall, she was still single 2 months ago, coming out from a breakup, and the person she's getting married to is someone she met just around late september (whom I have also met on the same day she did). Now she's getting married...

    I can't help myself thinking the reason behind this sudden decision??  This girl is gorgeous, smart, sophisicated, and from a very prominent family.  Should there be a dream girl for guys, I think she would be someone close to that standard.  Nonetheless, perhaps it's her family pressure or the mood swings from the breakup, or maybe it's the ultimate reason: LOVE, she's getting hitched in december.  I have a mixed feeling, she'll have my sincerest blessing and yet, I can't stop feeling pity that a girl as great as her would need to rush her lifetime decision upon someone so strange to her life.

    Makes me wonder; is marriage really as easy as that?  A foundation of two months would be sufficient for a committment of life time?

Monday, 09 November 2009

  • things that i have noticed in japan

    • Makeups are everything and anything
      • I was sitting in a train and saw the transformation of a not so pretty girl to a gorgeous girl within 30 mins. (I didn't know that they would put two to three layers of fake eye lashes onto their eyes)
    • There are lots of disturbed ladies in Japan.
      • Cutting their wrists are just a walk in the park and lots of them have panic attacks.
    • There's a growing trend of older girls date/marry younger guys.
      • There is someone who work around me married a lady that's 44 years old, and he's only 35.  Another example, a friend of mine is dating a girl of 36, and he's only 30.
    • Marriage and have kids are not essential part of marriage.
      • kids are too expensive to raise.  Thus, cats and dogs are getting more popular. (there are actually pet spas available...)
      • Some of females there are self-claimed "living for the moment"
    • Business is slow and reform would take lots of time
      • Japan remains to be a closed market to outsiders.

Friday, 23 October 2009

  • those evil finance guys...

    That was my common sentiment until i was 25.  I graduated at 2001, right after the bursting of the Internet Bubble, I was out of college and there were no jobs on wall street.  Ever since that, I possess a "sour grape" mentality towards bankers and what not.  I envy their access to the castle of fortune and secretly pity myself own misfortunes of the bad timing.

    Since then, many cities and many many startups after, I appreciated the fact that I was not in banking from the beginning.  I don't see businesses and growth as merely numbers, but I see the sweat and tears that people put into them.  That was real, instead of just simply black ink on a piece of white paper.

    Mind you, I have my fair collection of bankers that I deal with.  PEs, VCs, Private bankers...etc, Some of them have absolutely no idea what they are doing or what they are selling to me. Some of them are brilliant, absolutely top notch geniuses that thinks beyond the scope of just current businesses. However, the reality is that 99% of them are only thinking about the short term, and anything beyond 5 years is unthinkable. 

    Yet, I have realised that in the end of day, everything and anything always comes down to one commodity, money. Either in forms of currency, gold or what not, everything always comes down to cold hard cash.  As such, I am setting up my own fund in the next 6 months, a small fund that would serve my own long term interest; an investment holding entity of all my equities in companies, and to take interest and invest into angel level companies and projects. The fund will have zero outside capital, but rather it will be limited to only a few of my close friends that have made their own fortunes and industry influences.

    It will be a great adventure

    So it seems that while I have tried much to escape from the finance world, but ultimately I will still be a part of it.

Wednesday, 21 October 2009

  • google wave

     it's nice, like a constant IM conversation with format elaborations like email...  but, i am afraid once it's fully operational, i will never be able to have a time to rest, as it will be a nonstop discussions on various fronts. 

    nonetheless, it rocks that i have an account already!!! woohoo

Tuesday, 20 October 2009

  • traveling schedule

    10/24-10/28 Macau/Zhuhai, China
    10/28-11/3 Hong Kong
    11/3-11/6 Tokyo, Japan
    11/6-11/8 Beijing, China
    11/8-11/24 jiangmen, China
    11/25-12/4 Seattle/LA, USA
    12/4-12/8 Hong Kong
    12/8-12/11 Singapore, Malaysia
    12/12-12/15 Hong Kong

    that's what's planned so far, and i have to find a time slot to put India in there.  I have achieved diamond status in cathay pacific within one year, and the most comfortable bed is still the one i have at my place in Hong Kong

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