November 9, 2009
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sudden impulses
Last week, I received a sudden message from a beautiful and sexy female friend. “I am getting married” she said. and I was in awe..
As I recall, she was still single 2 months ago, coming out from a breakup, and the person she’s getting married to is someone she met just around late september (whom I have also met on the same day she did). Now she’s getting married…
I can’t help myself thinking the reason behind this sudden decision?? This girl is gorgeous, smart, sophisicated, and from a very prominent family. Should there be a dream girl for guys, I think she would be someone close to that standard. Nonetheless, perhaps it’s her family pressure or the mood swings from the breakup, or maybe it’s the ultimate reason: LOVE, she’s getting hitched in december. I have a mixed feeling, she’ll have my sincerest blessing and yet, I can’t stop feeling pity that a girl as great as her would need to rush her lifetime decision upon someone so strange to her life.
Makes me wonder; is marriage really as easy as that? A foundation of two months would be sufficient for a committment of life time?
Comments (4)
2 months doesn’t cut it.
you learn to love the person in the marriage.
i actually think that sometimes couple waited too long to get married, they don’t want ‘jump into things’ or ‘want to know each other better.’ You are giving yourself too much time get sick of the person, you never want to compromise because you think, hey, i am not married, i can still choose, or if this doesn’t work out, that mean there are someone else out there for me. if you get married early, you actually want to work things out with the person, cuz you have committed your life to the person. But that doesn’t mean you can’t get divorced, but you will tried harder before you sign those papers. And that being said, i myself is in a 3-yr relationship. I think we pretty much considered ourselves married, the rest is just paper work. We just don’t have the money to have a wedding yet.
makes me wonder too if she’s ready and if he could be the one. i thought i was ready after knowing a man all my life only to find out 2 months before my wedding day that i couldn’t go through with it.
It sounds like she had enough of trouble and wanted to settle down. I think she’s headed for disappointment honestly. Nothing ever good happens with rash decisions.