February 7, 2007

  • Valentines

    it's that time of the year again, for those who are single, this is the time we dread the most.  While we will never admit it to the public, but inside our heart we all know we want someone special next to us on that day.  As much as we would like to comment that this day is overrated and those flowers are the product of the evil commercial world, but at least once a year, we won't mind paying premium to make our woman gloat in front of her friends and colleagues.

    However, as for the single ones, we like to consider this day just another day, we try very hard not to think about it, and probably organize some singles dinner for those who lack the significant others to mock at those who really wanted a partner on that day.

    isn't life just interesting?

    Speaking of interesting, a college buddy of mine did something truly unthinkable in my view.  He has always been a golden child, someone with good looks, money, and charisima.  He never needed to worry about money because of his own capabilities and family background, and finding a girlfriend is like a walk in the park for him.  Yet, he has just decided to become a monk, a faithful follower of buddhist belief, permanently.... being the only child, the only male in a traditional Korean family, that is unthinkable.  You can expect how his fiancee think, and family reacts.

    As a result, I will be going to Seoul in two weeks to check up on him and hopefully talk with him, not about asking him to change his decision but to understand his rationale; for I, also, am a lost child.. too many things confusing me and too many troubles in my mind 

    Perhaps after my visit, you will never hear from me again as well.. =) imagine me working out a grand plan to popularize buddhaism, with a detailed business plan and execution team.. perhaps

    *i am not sad, just trying to see things through a crystal ball, as an outsider rather a participant

Comments (10)

  • oh please tell your friend to join the MONK, only if he can still have sex. Are there any religion that allows them to have sex?

  • *sigh* I'll be alone this year.

  • Valentine's day *is* overrated.  don't let Hallmark day drive you to such despair.  there's nothing wrong with thinking about it and wishing that you had a special someone with you... that's normal.

  • maybe you can find that someone to spend vday with while in seoul.

  • Vday is quite special for singles including me. I did pretend it was an ordinary day like other days in the year. When I felt sad about the my current status, I mean single status, I recall what my friend said," Sometimes Single is simple,Double is trouble."

    Hope will see your new post when you are back from Seoul.

  • oh shall we wait for your upcoming post from a monastery?

  • Whoa, a monk?! I wonder what made him choose that path.

  • People put too much clout on A DAY. It's just another day. You were single the day before...v-day is no different. You know you have no one before...v-day is no different.
    What? A monk? As long as he can still have a wife and sex, it's all good!!! ;)

  • lol...it's overrated, whether i have someone or not.

  • have fun in korea and tell us the result of your trip.

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