When i was very young, perhaps around 8 to 9 years old, there was once that my father talked to me in a serious manner.
"son" he said "because you are my son, you should be of a better version of me due to genetics, but there's one thing that you have to be realistic of. You are not someone that would be extremely good looking. There will be no easy ways for you to charm your ways around people. You will have to work hard and learn life the same way as I did, but as a man, there's no better way"
Not mentioning how devastated I was at that tender age of 8, to know that I am not good looking. But these days, as I look around me, I often wonder, is beauty/good looks a blessing or a curse?
For instance, I know quite a few models, and they all looked fabulous and gorgeous, and they are great ego boosters for me when they often comes to my party and have a great time hanging out together. however, beyond those beautiful looks, you would not find much else, maybe a decent personality (or not), but they often lack depth.
The reason being? they are too beautiful, they won't need too much to get what they want. However, as they age (which we all will), they have nothing equipped that would help them to continue to survive. Maybe if they are lucky, they will get to marry someone decent and of certain wealth, but statistically speaking, there are only so many "qualified" candidates.
Hence, I wonder, what will their life be like after they passed their prime age?? and the fact that they didn't really need anything but their beauty to be successful when they are young, what happens if they no longer possess beauty? Is it a blessing that they are beautiful so they can have life easier in the beginning? or is it a curse?
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